boys are girls are different.
sex is different than gender.
there aren't just two sexes.
and everybody's gender is atleast a little bit different.
not everybody is straight.
not everybody is attracted to somebody.
it's ok to be different than what we are brought up to think is "normal"
but that's because that normal doesn't exist.
boys can be girly.
girls can be "boy-ly"
masculinity is stupiduty.
feminitity is confining.
but trying to make both sexes the same is really, really stupid.
each person is different.
why conform to make everybody the same?
no body would like it.
lying to everybody including yourself, is still lying.
its not expanding the truth.
it's not changing to "fit in better."
it's out-right lying.
and nobody likes a liar.
so just remember....
gender isn't the same as sex.
gender and sex aren't boxed into a niche.
and boys don't have to be boys just like girls don't have to be girls.
thank you.